For a guy I suppose "ordinary" in knowledge is fine. What I do know is if you are into a one night stand or a long term relationship, find out what your partner enjoys, then you both are satisfied and isn't that why you are there?
Why am I here, easy research. Learned as a kid always get to know your quarry and you will be successful.
Dec 3 2011 - 8:08pm
By Stefanie L
This is incorrect. The majority of researchers/OBGYNs believe the muscle spasms present during the female orgasm are "designed" to assist in carrying/pushing sperm in the direction of the unfertilized egg. While this process is not "required", it is believed to be the original purpose.
Nov 29 2011 - 12:22am
By juicynsexi69 ;)
no wonder my baby calls me his "queen"....hahaha - no problems having the big O with my sexy baby,,,PaRtY tYmE!!!
Oct 20 2011 - 1:07am
By meganuski
I'm ordinary....But I orgasm everytime during sex so there!
Jan 31 2011 - 1:37pm
By Starbliss
Climax Queen... ROFL!!! Best title ever!
Jun 3 2010 - 6:52pm
By MzKitty
whoop whoop Im a Climax Queen.. thats good to know since I have More than 1 orgasm when My Bf and I play under the sheets..
May 15 2010 - 6:13am
By patty615
wow i did not know that .
Nov 18 2009 - 12:08pm
By valedhans
Hey Flyingyclist-I hope you find a woman who treats you right! Very cool to read WH to learn what women want & how to give it to them! KUDOS! More guys should have the nads you displayed by being here & then telling about it! Honestly I'm impressed. Most guys wouldn't do this let alone admit it & that sure does take some nads! Plus any woman who is lucky enough to end up with you, will surely be a satisfied one! GOD BLESS!!!!
Nov 17 2009 - 6:51pm
By meesheightnine
7 outta 10, woot! intersting quiz
Oct 24 2009 - 11:37am
By marceline
I have learned a lot, because I was clueless, but one things for sure I get the big O most of the time with my hubby.I did get the brain chemical right because I am a science major.
Oct 24 2009 - 10:30am
By singingreenmonkey
i AM being honest i must have a g-spot because i have orgasms through penetration alone and they are alot more powerful than masturbation through clitoral stimulation or just clit rubbing from my partner.
i have amazing mulitple orgasms the best i have experienced was from oral and fingering at the same time.
my partner told me his orgasms were pretty much all of the same intensity and this just made no sense to me men and women seem so different cos mine are so different everytime theres such a wide range of pleasure.
we as women deserve to feel equal to men in the sense that our pleasure is equally as important and this is down to communication i nealry always orgasm through sex with partner if i dont i make sure he pleasures me afterwards as this is fair.
It makes me sad when i hear of women who still have very outdated attitudes to sex such as that it is only men who should enjoy sex and that female pleasure or masturbation are wrong and we should feel guilty. You wouldn't believe how many friends of mine are uncomfrotable talking about sex and its just like its the 21st century times have changed women are now as sexually active as men and are seeking men in clubs etc and approaching them times have changed.
As for masturabtion
it is for the above reason that these 'statistics' are untrustworthy because a whole range of factors affects what people say in a survey.
some people may say they don;t masturbate cos their religion condemns it, some cos it is still men more than women who are likely to discuss masturbation, you may feel embarrassed you parents may be with you at the time so many factors afffect statistical honesty.
although i think there are still alot of old fashioned views towards sex out there which hold women back and prevent them from experiencing the amazing spectrum of sex, so yes i am sure quite a few women dont enjoy sex atall or maybe a little compared to men, but i expect the levels of masturbators are a little closer to mens than stats would have you think due to the modern day climate.
my advice to you gals out there is just please we deserve to enjoy sex it is our right as much as it is mens and dont let anyone tell you that it is biological cos im sure most of what holds us back is in our minds (psychology is very important in sex)
go out there know what you like experiment with masturbation dont feel it is wrong it isnt!!!
communicate with the person your having sex with and just let go and enjoy our bodies are capable of an amzing amount its just some of us are better at discovering it than others.
Oct 3 2009 - 4:58pm
By alyourzz
woppy i got 10 on 10 ... yeah a climax queen...
Jul 26 2009 - 1:14pm
By Quastarcella
In order to get an orgasm I have to be totally relaxed and in the mood. That means at that time I have to be selfish.
May 27 2009 - 1:56pm
By pickle99
I scored 10/10, but I did have a lucky guess at the brain chemical question.
May 11 2009 - 1:01pm
By champs06
Yeah, I can relate :)
May 5 2009 - 11:50am
By flyingcyclist
(my humble apologies for the typo's...on a lunch break "crunch" for time!)
Mar 23 2009 - 9:57pm
By flyingcyclist
8 out of 10..as a guy. Ok, not perfect, not by any means, but I'm willing to keep learning. :)
This is your site ladies, no doubt, with all respect..there are two "types" of ladies here: The first type is all love and into their relationship and being a PARTNER with their man. And the other half is "Men are all-lying, cheating fools..once a cheater, always a cheater..it's his fault for everything" OUCH!
I actually subscribe to this magazine...NOT to look at women in outfits or to snoop on women; I actually subscribe because I hope to learn about what a women wants; why she is the way she is; what she is thinking and WHY she thinks the way she does about ME...maybe I will find a way to suprise her by reading an article (or this blog) and doing something for her I didn't think of. (I've taken two of the test for women so far and have scored above the average score...at least for a man, hey?)
I am sorry that those of you who got cheated on got hurt. Statistically, men do cheat more than women, but women do their fair share. And men DON'T JUST do it because they want "a piece of A**", as some put it. My ex had told me hundreeds of times I would cheat on her..told me so many times she started to CONVINCE me of it..till I found her in bed with another man. She had refused to go to counseling because SHE didn't have any problems. She didn't want to talk about any of our issues to me or to anyone else. I TRIED being close, being giving, intimate, intervention..hell damn near exorcism if it would have helped. I'm no angel and don't claim to be (it takes two..I know that and I'm sure there are a few of you chomping at the bit to point that out) BUT I N E V E R was this animal that some of you describe in these blogs. I was ALWAYS the one willing to try.
So...it's not always the man who can be the pig.
Thank you for your time. You can resume beating us up.
Mar 23 2009 - 9:52pm
By Kittin
Wow! I suck
Feb 23 2009 - 12:36pm
By koreenwar
one more thing. I TOTALLY AGREE with Eva75 a few post down. Everyone..men and women deserve to know the truth about the clitoris. It is the MOST important sexual organ for women!
anyone ever see the Body Worlds exhibit? Real human bodies cut and cross sectioned and displayed at museums for our education and viewing pleasure.
Well i was outraged that this HUGE opportunity was missed to show women, men, kids what a clit was....How long it was and where it was exactly in a women.
it was ahuge opportunity to educate so many poeple about such an importabt feature of our bodies that already get overlooked.
There could have been a new generation of young people with real information on the female body.
We missed an opportunity to create an informed populace of pleasure seekers and pleasure givers.
BUT the exhibit did feature lots of cock and wombs of course. What the hell??? As if that was the ONLY thing that is important. It's so ridiculously Victorian!
Jan 2 2009 - 12:42pm
By koreenwar
BTW i like the word "orgasming" and I am using it!
I am an odd one when it comes to the big O. I basically came out of the womb masturbating. I did it when I was toddler and all through childhood and now as an adult i am far more orgasmic than most women. (Thank God i wasn't born in the times or in a country where a doctor might have recommended surgeries or worse for a female child with chronic masturbation "problems" Sad times for some kids = irreversible damage to their right to sexual pleasure.)
I simply understand how i work. I learned what an orgasim was by watchng Oprah in the 80's! I had an "AH-HA!" moment when Oprah was talking about CLimaxing/orgasming....how it was like running up a hill and the climax it what we were striving for. I thought to myself, "THAT is what i have been experiencing." I was so young then that up until that moment sex and orgasms weren't even connected it my mind. Too me, orgasming was a necessary pleasure, like eating or breathing.
By the time i was 12 i could give myself an orgasm in 20 seconds flat. Then I could (and still can) have multiples until i am blue in the face.
I learned the pleasures of female ejaculation when i was in my early 20s (in my opinion it is just a party favor to impress my man and I consider the old skool clitoral orgasm FAR superior.
Anyhow in my many years of orgasming, and with the experience of having lovers, both men and women...i can tell you, there is NO RIGHT WAY TO ORGASM. Certain things make orgasms more likely--direct clitoral stimulation. But direct clitoral stimulation can take MANY forms.
One thing we all have in common as far as orgasming goes--we are all creatures of habit. As humans we all form patterns that work. Once you get an orgasm to happen one way and have it happen regularly...that it probably the best way...as you are an expert at it. Stick with it...unless that which makes you orgasm is unhealthy (dangerous or harmful sex).
I prefer being on top. Just saying.
Jan 2 2009 - 12:30pm
By kottenkandi
I often think my way to the big "O"
Dec 21 2008 - 2:28am
By MrsAMendez
I'm a firm believer in woman on top.
Dec 3 2008 - 1:38pm
By Lynnsssokc
I love to mix it up...me on top, him on top, behind me, side ways...it does keep him guessing how will it be tonight.....Ladies it doesn't have to be just missionary and mixing it up can be just as fun for you...the reach around is great too....lol
Dec 2 2008 - 2:59pm
By Eva75
BOTTOM-LINE:
the clitoris is the IDENTICAL embyonic tissue as the penis.
how many men try or are able to orgasm without consistent, direct stimulation of their penis?????????????
WHY - OH WHY - do we women STILL BELIEVE we need to "learn how" to orgasm during penetrative sex?????????
HELLO PEOPLE: the penis thrusting in and out of the vagina ia VERY GOOD stimulus for the PENIS - not the clitoris.
thats' not to say intercourse isn't arousing and exciting and pleasurable to most women - but acting as if a woman is somehow an "expert" or "healthier" or sexually "smarter" because she can do the next-to-impossible (orgasm without her primary sex organ being properly stimulated) is BULLSH*T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
come on - it's the 21st century for god's sake! our clitorises are JUST AS IMPORTANT as the guy's penis. i'm DONE figuring out his banging away is supposed to get me off - IT DOESN'T 90%of the time. when it does, it is ONLY because my clitoris is being manually stimulated.
can we quit the charade?????????
Nov 27 2008 - 8:12pm
By Mishy06
Omg Im a Climax Queen, and I cant even believe it I think it's just common sense or just plain Knowledge What What!!!!!9/10
Nov 25 2008 - 1:01am
By purplewoman
To Foxsmart, I used to think other women faked it too, until I found my own way to an orgasm or sometimes orgasms, during actual penetrative sex. It was after my divorce and in my early 40's. Initially I focused on breathing a lot and letting my breath respond to the pleasure. I've found that certain things make it easy or difficult. The individual "fit" of bodies, including penis shape and size, my own ability to be present in the moment with my partner, my ability to ride the pleasure wave, like a surfer rides a wave, and having sex often,at least every 2nd day is my preference- so I keep familiar with those feelings. Now a few years into an uneventfull menopause my libido is excellent and I have an orgasm about 95% of the time after missionary for about 3 to 6 minutes, aftter other positions and some 69 yummy oral. But sometimes without much other and no oral I come. Sometimes my orgasms last a long time too. Oh and by the way I love being on top too, I haven't orgasmd that way though.
Nov 18 2008 - 11:43pm
By Candy_Coated_St...
I agree with the lady below.....being on top is the worst =/
and as far as i know, the same goes for all my close lady friends.
its missionary 100%
Nov 10 2008 - 9:13pm
By Candy_Coated_St...
i'm a climax queen....lol.
like i needed a test to tell me that ;-)
but the information was very interesting.
Nov 10 2008 - 9:11pm
By Dreamer<3
WOW i learned alot!!!
Nov 8 2008 - 6:15pm
By Lisa B43
I have reached thr BIG O by my self and I have spent 15 years schooling my significant other about what works for me and he has learned very well!!!!!!
Nov 6 2008 - 11:32am
By schmidke
Interesting and knowledgable.
Nov 6 2008 - 8:56am
By foxsmart
MMMmmmm, says I'm a Climax Queen, All answered correctly, 100% perfect. I have trouble believing the first question that 25% women have Orgasms during penetration sexual intercourse. . I think that number is even lower if women want to be honest, I want to comment that I at 50 years old with a life time of experience with many male partners NEVER, I will say, NEVER one time had an orgasm with penis in and out penetration. That movement "alone" would never trigger those tingly sensations that begin to build an orgasm slowly. I don’t think gee, I need a man for an orgasm, like men think of women for providing theirs. I use my vibrator when in a relaxed private, quiet, place. Only I know the exact spot where that sensation can build gently. Trying to explain these intricate details to a man during the passion of a sexual encounter is impossible and disruptive. I prefer to have seductive foreplay and incorporate a small vibrator while receiving oral sex for 100% Orgasm every time. The vagina does not have those sensitive, condensed nerves like the clit, an equilevent mini penis of greater concentrated nerves only for pleasure for a women. . It feels good to have sexual intercourse for the closeness, connection and bonding, but that alone will not bring on an "O". It's time to speak up, don't fake those orgasms, and because it only confuses men and they think women feel exactly the same as they feel. They boast to their buddies about your loud screams, its just rubbish.. How can one be loudly screaming like an injured moose when you are building an orgasm. That’s nonsense and counterproductive to creating the conditions for a climax It's just not so as the vagina is not the same as a penis in regards to pleasure. Male Doctors suggest the women on top; I wonder how they would know this? This is the WORST position for me. The clit, if you look down is about 1 inch above and not being stimulated at all. I am not a dominant, aggressive female on top type desiring to lift myself up and down it’s too much damn work, and distracts from my requirement to be COMPLETLEY RELAXED and let an orgasm build gradually while I can “concentrate” and be in a zone. . This “women on Top” position is impossible moving my body up and down with burning thighs, more theatrics, and acting sexy, great for the guy’s visual perspective, horrible for my own pleasure. I’d rather change a tire... Girls, be honest, no more faking orgasm.. insist on some help with a vibrator if you need it. Don’t be embarrassed. If your man won’t allow it, show him the door. You are entitled to pleasure just as men do.
